Wisdom & Haruka's Wedding Invitation

令和8年11月16日

湯島天満宮 · 東京

Monday · 16 November 2026

Yushima Tenmangu · Tokyo

Message

It is with full hearts that we invite you to share the day we say "yes" to a life made together, amid the chrysanthemums of Yushima Tenmangu's autumn festival, on a quiet November afternoon in Tokyo.

The years that brought us here have been kinder for the people in them, and you are among the ones who shaped us. We hope, with everything, that yours will be one of the faces we see as we walk through the torii on the sixteenth.

Yushima Tenmangu

Venue

Founded in 458 CE and dedicated to Tenjin, kami of learning, Yushima Tenmangu is a fitting place for couples to ask for a wise and lasting start. Its halls and ema plaques are carved from kiso hinoki, the long-grained cypress that, for a couple, carries musubi: a bond patient and strong, deepening with the years.

  1. Purification
    Arriving guests rinse their hands at the chōzuya basin near the entrance, a small gesture of respect before stepping into the sanctuary.
  2. Entry
    A Shinto priest leads the procession into the inner shrine. Please bow once at the gate as you cross the threshold.
  3. The Sake Vows
    Wisdom and Haruka exchange three sips from each of three cups, the san-san-kudo, the heart of the rite that seals the union.
  4. Photography
    Please refrain from photos during the rite itself; the keeper will signal warmly when the moment to capture arrives.

The Day

2026.11.16

Chosen as a Taian, the most auspicious day in the Japanese rokuyō calendar for new beginnings.

  1. 2:00 PM
    Guests begin to arrive
  2. 2:15 PM
    Photo session
  3. 2:30 PM
    Welcome reception
  4. 3:00 PM
    Ceremony begins
    The ceremony will be conducted entirely in Japanese.
  5. 3:30 PM
    Ceremony ends
  6. 6:00 PM
    Reception dinner
    A seated five-course dinner at La Pelouse Tokyo, until 9:00 PM. Details & separate RSVP

Kimono or Western attire, both equally welcome. Please cover shoulders and knees, and wear closed-toed shoes with socks (which may need to come off indoors).

Reception · Details & RSVP

Until the day

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Memories

Some moments along the way

A favourite memory A favourite memory Wisdom and Haruka in front of Tokyo Tower

Travel & Stay

Directions

Yushima Tenmangu worship hall
Yushima Tenmangu
〒113-0034 東京都文京区湯島3-30-1
3-30-1 Yushima, Bunkyō City, Tokyo
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Yushima Tenmangu sits a short walk from Yushima Station (Chiyoda Line) and Ueno-Hirokōji Station (Ginza Line). For guests staying nearby, a few hotels within walking distance of the shrine.

Hotel Edoya

3-20-3 Yushima · 5 minutes on foot

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Hotel Niwa Tokyo

1-1-16 Misaki-chō, Chiyoda · 12 minutes by car

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Tokyo Garden Palace

1-7-5 Yushima, Bunkyō · 5 minutes on foot

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Gifts

Your presence is the gift

Truly - having you with us in Tokyo is everything we could ask for. For those who have asked about gifts: we're beginning married life with a search for our first home together. Rather than a registry, or boxes to carry across the city, a small contribution to our new-apartment fund would mean the world, in whatever amount feels right.

Kindly Reply

Will you be there?

Your presence is what we're most looking forward to. Please reply for the shrine ceremony. The reception dinner has its own page with the menu and a separate reply.

Ceremony replies: as soon as you can · Reception dinner: by 5 November 2026

Nov 16th, 2026 RSVP